“No one can love you more than you love yourself.”
There has been a lot of talk about the Law of Attraction, which I love. I’ve been taking heed lately to who I am around and how I conduct myself because I want to be surrounded by peace, joy, purpose, love, and compassion. I want to be surrounded by delightful things all the time, even when things are not going as I planned them.
Now when it comes to love and relationships, I think there are a few practical things that many people avoid. However, this beautiful Law is a guide we can use to gauge just how well we are treating ourselves. I’ll explain how in this blog post.
Now, when it comes to love, we all want it, right?
I mean, I don’t know one person that can honestly say “I have enough love. I don’t need another person to care for me.”
However, because we can only have in our lives things that are in agreement with us (hopefully you’re still following me), we also have to understand the following. We can only receive love when we are demonstrating love to ourselves.
I know that it may sound crazy, but if you think about it, it makes perfect sense. If the Law of Attraction is true and we attract in our lives things with which we agree, you can only attract someone who loves you if you believe you are worthy of love. You can only attract a loving person if you first love yourself.
In fact, you can never attract a person in your life who loves you more than you love yourself. You are the example that people use to determine how they should treat you.
You see, although you may want someone to treat you better than you treat yourself, you will push away anyone that wants to do so.
For example, have you ever doubted someone’s motives when they seemed “too” loving and attentive? That man may not have been crazy, although you felt there was something wrong. Inside, the red flags were flying because he was giving you more than you experience in your everyday life. And anything other than what you experience everyday seems strange.
So, here’s what you can do to experience more love in your life. Think about the thing you want to experience more frequently. Then, make the commitment to start showing yourself that experience right now.
If you want more understanding, take time to know yourself without judgment. If you want more attention, pay close attention to the little nudges from your body and heart. And if you want more love, take better care of yourself, your healthy and your emotional well being. Once you caress yourself with love, you feel more at home with people who want to show you the same things. Try it – it works!
Have you been showing yourself more love lately? Have you noticed you’re around people who love you more now that you show yourself love? Please share your experiences on the blog.
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